Today I met a Christian blogger. “Culture of Violence?” He wrote. Then, he proceeded with verbal assault.
Previously, I referenced his work, but I was respectful. I know how to hold my tongue when it comes to judging others. That’s not my place. I was called to love.
This is my personal response to the writer.
Dear Christian Blogger,
Actually, the initial thoughts behind our culture of violence go much deeper than that.
Of course, you approached my blog with your glasses of judgement meticulously formulated and focused on your own way of thinking. After all, you’re a Christian. So, anything you do and say MUST be with good intentions, right?
You made sure to let me know it was “nothing personal.” It’s just your religion to point out people’s tragedies, shortcomings and faults, right? I understand.
You’re a Christian.
You have an important message to share with the world. Do you know what story I think of when I think of Christians much like yourself?
Mary Magdalene, one of Jesus’ greatest servants. Others fed Him, worshiped Him, followed Him and shouted His praises…
She washed His dirty feet with her hair and she was humbled!
I imagine she felt so honored because she was a whore. (As you’ve attempted and failed to make me to be in your introduction.)
Or maybe she wasn’t holy enough or clean enough, much like the diseased woman who strained and reached out to simply touch the hem of His garment.
I imagine I’m a lot like them.
After all, that was your intention, right? You’ve got to appeal to your readers who are similar to you; their Bibles turned to the page that gives permission for judgement.
It’s okay. I understand.
My previous relationship was with a female. The next time you want to attack me, read further! You would have had great ammunition to keep you focused.
I began that relationship the same month that I was violently sexually assaulted in someone’s front yard, while 5 other people watched.
But hey, make light of my pain and use it for your sermon. Amen? Thank God, Jesus never did that!
In all of my articles, at no point do I ever blame police. However, when you’re a writer and you cover stories that are in the media, the facts that you report have to be exact. Your kind of judgement wouldn’t make it to Elite Daily. But hey, you’re welcome to try.
If you had scanned less and read more, your information about my concept would be thorough and well-debated.
But it’s not.
See, this was my first article on our culture of violence. It was published in May 2014. You’d know, if you read it.
My second article covers who is to blame for the culture we’ve created. It very clearly points no fingers to anyone but us.
We the people!
My third article to address our culture of violence was this article. It’s about child abuse and domestic violence. But I’m sure in your eyes, the victim is to blame.
It’s okay. I understand.
You’re Christian, right?
That makes your prejudices acceptable and justifies judgement. At least, that’s the message you’re sending.
Then, I wrote about violence going viral. No, I didn’t blame police, at all! I called the people to action to stop the violence by exclaiming,
These are our children!
If you ask me, the fact that you’ve “read” so much of my work and given it so much thought (clearly), tells me a lot about your love, your thoughts and your heart.
Actions speak louder than words.
After reading a ridiculously loud message of love, you found the hate and judgement. The same way in your article about the death Leelah Alcorn.
You see, with every single article I have written, I’ve used “we, people, us” etc.
I’ve reminded people that we are all human and I’ve plead to the people,
God called us to do just that.
Sounds like He has called you to judge. And the message that you’re sending speaks loads.
If God has called you to be a light in this world, why is it that none of your posts reflect it?
We do have a culture of violence.
Some of the most horrendous acts of violence we see today
flow from the very mouths of people.
Much like yourself.
Keep your religion. I’ll keep my faith and choose love.